Rockers girlfriend and I had been getting along fairly well, to my knowledge. Now, i'm not normally one to make friends with The Guys girlfriends, because they tend to come and go pretty quickly. This one is so much like me though, I felt like it could've been a decent friendship, as decent as one could get when you base a friendship where the biggest thing you have in common is the love of her life was trying to do me.
When we go out, shes fun. We get along great and share stuff, its generally nice having someone to talk to when your out with a bunch of guys. Apprently though, she doesn't feel the same.
A few days ago, Singer and one of the kids was telling me that she didn't come out that previous saturday because of me. Singer heard her on the phone saying "If Irish is there, I'm not fucking coming!". The kid told me also that when he was on the phone with me one time, she asked who it was and when he said me, she rolled her eyes.
It gets slightly more complicated. Both times she was with Rocker, so is she putting it on for his benefit? Or is she just a great faker when shes around me?
The saturday she refused to come out, we had hung out that friday from about 7 to about 3 in the morning. We had a fantastic time, talking and chatting, and yet she badmouthed me the next day?
I honestly don't think Singer and the Kid would lie to me, they have nothing to gain from it, and they just aren't like that. But as well, her possible fakeness is just too real. When you hate someone deep down, you don't suggest they spend more time with you and so on.
I'm normally the kind to confront people, if they have a problem, balls out lets hear it. I hate when people have the testicles to hate me, but none to tell me why. So heres my dilema...
Rocker is semi speaking to me now. Only in public places, but small stuff like answering my questions, asking me questions and laughing at my jokes and stuff, which is a huge step from being completly ignored. I don't want to start problems again with this girl if it means that its going to split our group of friends AGAIN. I also don't want to be seen as weak. I don't want people thinking that if one chick can get away with badmouthing me, the rest can, because I honestly don't need it. I want to resolve problems with her, if any, but i'm not even sure if there are any.
So i'm stuck. Until I find out more information, I'm screwed.
2 comments:
i can totally see how youre stuck.
my SIL is like that.. nice to the face, mean behind the back.
the best way to handle it - for now, is to be the nice one. that way, the boys see that it's HER being the silly cunt, and YOU arent doing anything wrong. But at the same time, if any other girls do it, call them on it.. if they say something, just tell them you are "working on it" and to mind their own feckin business!
there will come a day when shes being nice to your face in front of everyone, and one of the guys will be so hammered hell let slip something like "that's NOT what you said before!" and repeat what she's said..then, you just look at her and say "oh?"
trust me.. karma's a bitch.
hope everything is ok love.havent heard from ya in a while...
how did the girl thing go???
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