Sunday, June 3, 2007

Mystery Men and the women who love them.

I've done the unthinkable. I've made friends with the enemy.

That's right folks, I made friends with Rockers girlfriend. The worst part? Shes awesome.

The scary thing is her and I are so much alike, right down to what we wear, our mannerisms, things we say, everything. We're both Irish, both have a take-no-shit attitude, both love peircings, coffee,The Guys, etc. We decided to go to a brit import store, that had food from Ireland, like rock candy and saltwater taffy. While I was deciding what to wear (Needed to look hot but in a i'm-not-trying-i'm-just-better-looking kind of way) and when I met up with her? She was wearing the EXACT same thing I was going to, but decided last minute not to. Same shirt from my store, same pants. It was freaky.

The enevitable came, and Rocker was brought up. Then like a snowball, everything just poured out about the whole situation. And you know what? She didn't know he wasn't speaking to me, and their relationship isn't as flawless as I thought it was. It's horrible to say, but that made me feel better. It made me feel good to know that he's not just getting away with treating her like shit.

Anyways, i'll save the majority of the conversation, but it was good to finally talk things out with her. It was also good to hear that he considered me a best friend before he started being an arse. And, to be horrible again, she told me that when she got on his case about why he was going back with her, and whether it had anything to do with him not being able to sleep with me, he lost it on her. He said "yes, that's the reason I want you back, because Irish wouldn't sleep with me." Harsh, but it felt good to know I gotunder his skin. Yes, i'm a terrible person.

On a different female front, Smashers and I were going to have a girls night. We were having it because her boyfriend asked Fatarse and Smashers sister to go to a concert, but didn't ask her. He didn't see the problem with this. So after a build up of anger for the past two weeks, Smashers wanted to have a fun filled night of getting loaded. The only problem? Neither of us have money.

Since we both live in a small town, I told her that we should probably both go in on cab fare. She kept saying she had no money to spare, which is true, but then we ended up drinking my liquor and wine, neither of which shes offered to replace. Plus, she was all for going out and everything, but not willing to put forth cab fare, so doesn't that mean that I would have to stay sober and drive? Even before all of this, she informed me that she had left her stuff at her boyfriends, so she was just going to go stay there for the night. Our girly night had suddenly turned into a girly few hours. Her boyfriend called at 1:30 am, the considerate guy he is, and told her he would be at my house in 3 minutes, barely giving us time to finish our movie.

Here's my major problem. Hes the type of guy who does stuff when he wants and expects everyone to work around him. He could care less if were watching a movie, he'd say "Oh, go ahead and finish" but then sit there and sigh loudly until we turned it off. He came home from the concert at 1ish and when he told Smashers that he was on his way and she mentioned we still had a movie on, his reply was "Well, how late are we being then? Because I've been out since the afternoon."

I could go on for hours about this guys inconsiderate nature, but I don't want to get too riled before bed.

1 comment:

KBear said...

hm.. sounds like you totally were not getting the whole story from rocker.. he sounds like an ass.

she sounds nice, and im glad thats one less stress for you.

smashers.. friend or not, i would soo be pissed and would soo be telling her off.

now for your other post - the don valley parking lot is the EXACT reason i looked in scarberia for my gyno (or richmond hill now) because i WILL NOT drive downtown. i fear it. pedestrians, one ways, no lefts.. its just a pain id rather not have. ill take the subway or go train thankyou!
however, having those things run smooth is like having no traffic on the dvp - impossible.

sigh... :)